Celebrating Women

As Women’s History Month comes to a close, it’s only right that I highlight the achievements of the fierce females who, this year alone, have broken barriers and paved the way for future generations of girls with a dream.

The first all-women Navy flyover in the Super Bowl

The fly-over team for Super Bowl LVII includes, from left to right, Lt. Arielle Ash of Abilene, Texas; Lt. Margaret Dente of North Salem, New York; Lt. Naomi Ngalle of Springfield, Virginia; Lt. Jacqueline Drew of Waltham, Massachusetts; Lt. Suzelle Thomas of Birmingham, Alabama; and, Lt. Kathryn Martinez, also of Springfield, Virginia. (U.S. Navy Office of Information)

On February 12, 2023, history was made at the Super Bowl, and it wasn’t by the male athletes. Prior to kickoff and following the singing of the National Anthem, a team of all women piloted the US Navy flyover. This was to commemorate 50 years since women were allowed to be Navy pilots. Lt. Arielle Ash and Lt. Saree Moreno, who led the diamond formation, spoke on this honor. “It’s definitely a huge honor to be asked to do this and to celebrate those women that have paved this way for all of us,” said Ash. Moreno added, “I think it’s a message not just to young girls, but to young people that they can do whatever they set their mind to…And if they want to be a jet pilot, that is well within possibility for them.” These heroic ladies exude pride in their service to this country and in their position as women in the military. They deserve honor not only for having to prove their value in a field that, even still, consists of mostly men, but for being a part of history at one of the world’s most-watched sporting events.

First all-female MLB broadcast team for ROOT SPORTS Network

From left to right: Julia Morales (Astros), Jen Mueller (Mariners), Angie Mentink (Mariners), Jenny Cavnar (Rockies), were the on-air voices serving as play-by-play announcer, analyst and sideline reporters during the Mariners vs. Rockies Spring Training game on March 11, 2023.

During the 2023 Spring Training, ROOT SPORTS Network gathered women reporters from various baseball teams and networks to come together and hold its first-ever game broadcasted completely by women. While this was not a first for MLB, these ladies cemented their names into history by becoming just the second fully female broadcast crew. Cavnar reflected on this opportunity by saying “I think just walking around a baseball clubhouse or walking around fields at Spring Training and being able to see several women in several different areas—it is so refreshing, and it just goes to show you the hard work that a lot of us have put in for decades is spreading.” For decades female sports reporters have had to work hard to be taken seriously and prove their proficiency in working for a men’s sport. This move by ROOT SPORTS Network was a step in the right direction for future knowledgable, sports-loving ladies. Prior to the game, Mueller stated “It’ll just be female voices that are leading those conversations. And I think that’s an important thing, because we all have different points of view. But also, it shows people that it’s possible and that it’s normal.” These respected reporters are living proof that women aren’t going away anytime soon in the world of sports.

Michelle Yeoh becomes the first Asian woman to win an Oscar for Best Actress in a Leading Role

Michelle Yeoh accepts the best actress award for Everything Everywhere All at Once onstage during the 95th Annual Academy Awards at Dolby Theatre on March 12, 2023 in Hollywood, California. Kevin Winter/Getty Images

While her career spans many decades, actress Michelle Yeoh is finally receiving her rightful recognition, at the age of 60. Following the release of the film Everything Everywhere All at Once just over a year ago, the screenplay quickly began receiving many accolades. For her role in the film as Evelyn, a first-generation Chinese immigrant and owner of a laundromat, she previously won a Golden Globe for Best Actress in a Motion Picture. Yeoh then went on to make history with her win at the 95th Academy Awards for the same role. On March 12, 2023, by winning an Oscar for Best Actress in a Leading Role, she became the first Asian woman to win in such category as well as the first-ever Malaysian-born actress to win in any category at the Academy Awards. Yeoh, who is known to perform many of her own stunts in her action films, including her latest, has worked tirelessly throughout her career to make a name for herself, not only as an Asian, but a woman in a male-dominated industry, and it seems to finally be paying off. In her acceptance speech she professed, “For all the little boys and girls who look like me watching tonight, this is a beacon of hope and possibilities. This is proof that…dream big, and dreams do come true. And ladies, don’t let anybody tell you you are ever past your prime. Never give up. This leading lady is certainly an inspiration to aspiring actors and actresses alike.

Watch Michelle Yeoh’s full acceptance speech here

Honorable Mention: Judy Heumann

Special Advisor on Disability Rights for the US State Department Judy Heumann at her office in Washington, DC on November 8, 2010.

While this activists’ contributions go beyond just this year, it would be a disservice to the disabled community if I failed to mention this inspiring woman, who sadly passed away on March 4, 2023. I’ve already once written about her on this blog in discussing the Disability Rights Movement and the summer camp she and others attended, Camp Jened, featured in the 2020 Netflix documentary Crip Camp: A Disability Revolution. Heumann, who contracted polio at age 2, devoted her life to advocacy for the rights of those with a disability. At the age of 5, she was denied the right to attend school because she was considered a “fire hazard”. She recounts this time in her memoir, Being Heumann, writing “Kids with disabilities were considered a hardship, economically and socially”. As an adult, she was denied a teaching license after failing her medical exam, even though she passed her oral and written exams. After suing the Board of Education, she was able to become the first teacher who was a wheelchair user in the state of New York. During President Obama’s presidency, he appointed Judy as the first Special Advisor for International Disability Rights at the U.S. Department of State, where she served from 2010-2017.  Heumann was a key leader who, through her activism and protesting, helped the passage of multiple laws for the disabled community such as Section 504, the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, the Americans with Disabilities Act, and the Rehabilitation Act. While discussing the lack of authentic disability representation and inclusion in films in a 2021 interview, she argued “They need to be bringing disabled people to the table in the development of their materials, and they need to be hiring disabled people for a part or all aspects of the work…Ultimately, it’s not just about looking at more Crip Camps and more films on disability, but it’s really also about understanding that disabled people, both on the sets and off, have much to contribute around disability, but also in general.” While we’ve seemingly made progress in recent years, we surely have a long ways to go. The tireless efforts of her and others who fought for the rights of the disabled community is not lost on me. She is a prime example that we’re all “Heumann”.

All these stellar woman who have made waves in their respective industries are just some of many that make me proud to be a woman!

Manifestation Magic: Believe It to See It

This article is a collaboration with Erica Adugwo, my friend and fellow Houstonian who is a certified transformational life and leadership coach. To differentiate our insights, each section includes the initial of the respective contributor.

If you’ve been following my blog for some time, then you know about my fascination with manifestation. This is the idea that we have the power to transform our thoughts into reality, positively and even negatively. I live by this philosophy, which motivates me to approach each day with optimism. I think that there is meaning in everything, so when I stumbled upon quotes that share a common message I knew it was no coincidence. With the help of words from various philosophers and writers, we will be discussing the power of believing. — F

The concept for this article came when I found the first quote by author Neville Goddard. I had been feeling discouraged due to not yet having reached my goals as far as views on this blog, and his words made me come to a realization. I cannot expect something to come to fruition simply because I want it. I have to believe in my potential and the possibility of what’s meant for me. Author Jack Canfield’s quote from Rhonda Byrne’s novel The Secret, offered me a different perspective. I can manifest anything I want, only if I believe. That is why I will continue to approach life with a positive attitude. I no longer define my blog’s success in numbers because I have the belief that the best is yet to come. — F

I believe in a benevolent Universe. I am inspired to always see the good, even in the bad. This does not mean I won’t experience hard times, but I know that everything ends up working out for my own good. It was my near-death experience that made me realize we are always being guided in the right direction to our destiny. As Goddard explained, we attract what we believe to be true, so if I believe in a benevolent Universe, then I can experience a life where despite trials and difficulties, a sense of joy, peace and fulfillment can still be found. Just as Canfield stated, we first have to decide what we want for ourselves. I believed I deserved to be healthy and that it was possible for me. If I could have it, then it is possible for another. Whatever it is, you must believe. — E

Belief is a mindset, a state of acceptance. Gandhi describes how just the mere belief that you can achieve something will give you the ability to do so. When you learn to acknowledge your own capabilities, you can accomplish anything you set your heart on; the very title of my blog supports this philosophy. To “Faith It ‘til You Make It” is to believe in one’s self, to carry confidence and optimism enough to reach your own idea of success. The effectiveness of both manifesting and praying depends on one key element: intention. In manifesting you might create affirmations, or encouraging statements, to repeat to one’s self that will help you focus on your desired outcome. Praying should be perpetual, with strong conviction and a clear purpose. You must believe that what’s meant for you is waiting for you because the Universe holds our fate. You must believe that in God’s time, prayers will be answered. It’s not as simple as asking for and immediately obtaining whatever you want. However you seek guidance, you can not expect results without patience, sustained faith, and sincere intentions. — F

Belief is powerful, when you believe in the power of your word and in God’s word anything is possible. I have learned that in the process of holding on to certain beliefs I might make mistakes, but if my beliefs match my everyday actions and my spiritual practice, then I am being congruent. If I believe that every action I take no matter how small will lead me to something bigger than myself, then I am on the right path. Say what you believe and believe what you say. Let your words and your actions align, and when you speak something into existence eventually it will take form as your reality. If someone says “I am poor, sick, weak”, their situation will remain so because our thoughts control our feelings and experiences. We must eliminate limiting beliefs that hinder our perception of the world around us. A higher sense of truth will transform into a greater reality, the reality you accept is what will manifest. — E

When we make the choice to believe something, we can either feel uplifted and inspired, or drained and disempowered. So the question we must ask ourselves is, “What do I choose to believe about myself, my neighbors, and the world in general?”. A belief is the individual truth of man. We can not change what may happen to us, but we can choose our attitude towards any given circumstance. This idea was originally provided by Viktor Frankel, whose exact point I brought up two years ago in my very first blog post. There is no denying the simple truth that our thoughts have an impact on our experiences, this is the Law of Attraction. So while manifestation is highly disregarded as nothing more than a fad, I stand firm in my belief of its magic. The wonderful things in life are ever-present, you just have to believe it to see it. — E & F

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I have been intrigued by philosophy for many years now, so getting to discuss manifestation was exciting! As a life coach, Erica posts analyses on life and mentality as well as motivational quotes on her social media. One day I had stumbled upon her Instagram page and one of her posts read “Faith it until you make it”. This was just months after I had started this blog site, and I let her know this. Soon after I learned that we are both from Houston! Her account is one of my favorite pages to find positivity and words of encouragement. If you want to check out her content yourself, visit her Instagram @/erica.k.inc or Twitter @/KellechieSpeaks. Thanks again to Erica for providing her insights for my blog!