Faith’s Fashion: Wedding Edition

A couple months ago I said “yes to the dress”. I eagerly went shopping for the perfect dress so that I would be ready for the special day that was nearing, and on the 17th of July, I finally got to wear it as a guest to the wedding of one of my best friends, Sarah, and her high school sweetheart, David.

The last time I wrote about my personal attire, we were in a quarantine. In this second installment of what I’ve entitled Faith’s Fashion, I will be detailing what I wore to attend my first-ever wedding.

I have always marveled in putting my own cute, stylish outfits together. While my everyday style typically consists of comfy, baggy graphic tees and black leggings, I also love dressing up nice for special occasions. Because I had never been to a wedding, it took some searching to find the right fit for me. I first had to decide on the look I was going for. Should I dress up elegantly or more casual? What color dress is appropriate for a wedding? Once these factors were made up in my mind, I was on the hunt for the perfect match.

I soon decided on an off-the-shoulder smocked sundress, coral in color, with white embroidered eyelet detailing at the hem.

This simple yet stunning sundress was the perfect look for a summer’s evening out, without being too extravagant. The eyelet detailing added just enough elegance to an otherwise plain dress. The off-the-shoulder sleeves gave the perfect feminine flare. The stretchy material of the smocked bodice provided me comfortability to enjoy the night’s festivities. This was particularly important to me, as it is extremely difficult to find clothes, especially dresses, that accommodate and fit properly on disabled bodies. This dress was lightweight and airy, and allowed me to soak up those sun rays!

The only thing that can elevate any outfit is accessories. For this look I went with a bohemian style, so I wore my taupe, laser cut Kenneth Cole ankle boots. The only other time I had ever worn these shoes coincidentally was back when me and Sarah took our senior pictures together!

Throwback to almost four years ago, when we took this photo during the fall semester before graduating!

The finishing touches to this look included classy white and gold earrings resembling the popular Kendra Scott brand. I used rhinestone hair pins to hold my voluminous beach waves back, so I could flaunt my shoulders in this fun and flirty style.

While I could never have upstaged the bride, I think my first experience dressing up to attend a wedding was a success!

Congratulations to Mr. and Mrs. Aguirre!

Is College the Right Choice for the New Generation?

Most high school graduates have typically been bombarded with the age-old question, “So, what college are you going to?” The answer was almost always followed by the names of prominent universities. However, with the increasing movement towards online degrees and the outrageous rising tuition costs, the answer is no longer so clear cut. As our economy and world changes, young adults everywhere are having to rethink the question, “Is college the right choice for me?”

Those who decide to go to public college are faced with many challenges. Typically, they are overwhelmed with high costs that they find themselves paying off for many years later in life. Also, many students find that the job they get after school has nothing to do with the degree they pursued, therefore those years of handwork and financial investment were for nothing. So, if you know for certain what you want to pursue in life absolutely requires a college degree, then public college is the right choice for you.

With these increasing tuition fees, some people even question whether going to college is worth it at all. This varies person to person and depends on each circumstance, but this option should not be shunned. Many students after high school graduation get their foot in the door of a company and go straight to work. In the work field, having a college degree typically helps when applying and certainly looks good to an employer, but is not always a requirement and does not determine one’s capabilities and success in certain fields. Therefore, if you are willing to give up the opportunity to have the public setting college experience, and you want to get straight to work in an area that does not require a specific degree, then I say you should go for it.

Another option for incoming college students is online studies. This is the avenue I personally chose and I will say it has its pros and cons. Online schooling is perfect for those who need or want to study in the convenience of their own home. No, with online classes you don’t get a typical classroom setting, but you are still held to the same standard of your average student. You must be disciplined in a schedule that works for you in order to properly study, meet assignment deadlines, and keep up good grades. Online college still offers a variety of degrees and is a good way to study, at the least, your basics. You can receive the same material and ultimately the same opportunity as any public school with courses online. If you know that the career you want doesn’t truly require a college degree, then maybe an online program is the right choice for you.

With the recent events of this pandemic, students across the globe have gotten a taste of online studies and it has brought up the question whether or not virtual learning is the way of the future for schooling at all grade levels. I asked my mother who is a public school teacher her thoughts and she stated, “When I first became a teacher 23 years ago, people would joke that robots would replace teachers in the future. The internet has now stepped in allowing a new platform for teaching that was unfathomable when I began my teaching journey. I am old school and I do prefer face to face instruction. Yet I must appreciate the convenience of online learning and embrace it as the way of the future. We all have to adapt or be left behind.”

So, is traditional college the right choice for the new generation? Is virtual learning the way of the future? We’ll just have to wait and see.