Is College the Right Choice for the New Generation?

Most high school graduates have typically been bombarded with the age-old question, “So, what college are you going to?” The answer was almost always followed by the names of prominent universities. However, with the increasing movement towards online degrees and the outrageous rising tuition costs, the answer is no longer so clear cut. As our economy and world changes, young adults everywhere are having to rethink the question, “Is college the right choice for me?”

Those who decide to go to public college are faced with many challenges. Typically, they are overwhelmed with high costs that they find themselves paying off for many years later in life. Also, many students find that the job they get after school has nothing to do with the degree they pursued, therefore those years of handwork and financial investment were for nothing. So, if you know for certain what you want to pursue in life absolutely requires a college degree, then public college is the right choice for you.

With these increasing tuition fees, some people even question whether going to college is worth it at all. This varies person to person and depends on each circumstance, but this option should not be shunned. Many students after high school graduation get their foot in the door of a company and go straight to work. In the work field, having a college degree typically helps when applying and certainly looks good to an employer, but is not always a requirement and does not determine one’s capabilities and success in certain fields. Therefore, if you are willing to give up the opportunity to have the public setting college experience, and you want to get straight to work in an area that does not require a specific degree, then I say you should go for it.

Another option for incoming college students is online studies. This is the avenue I personally chose and I will say it has its pros and cons. Online schooling is perfect for those who need or want to study in the convenience of their own home. No, with online classes you don’t get a typical classroom setting, but you are still held to the same standard of your average student. You must be disciplined in a schedule that works for you in order to properly study, meet assignment deadlines, and keep up good grades. Online college still offers a variety of degrees and is a good way to study, at the least, your basics. You can receive the same material and ultimately the same opportunity as any public school with courses online. If you know that the career you want doesn’t truly require a college degree, then maybe an online program is the right choice for you.

With the recent events of this pandemic, students across the globe have gotten a taste of online studies and it has brought up the question whether or not virtual learning is the way of the future for schooling at all grade levels. I asked my mother who is a public school teacher her thoughts and she stated, “When I first became a teacher 23 years ago, people would joke that robots would replace teachers in the future. The internet has now stepped in allowing a new platform for teaching that was unfathomable when I began my teaching journey. I am old school and I do prefer face to face instruction. Yet I must appreciate the convenience of online learning and embrace it as the way of the future. We all have to adapt or be left behind.”

So, is traditional college the right choice for the new generation? Is virtual learning the way of the future? We’ll just have to wait and see.


To All the Boys I’ve Never Loved Before

I have never caught the eye of any person. I have nothing to base the feeling of young, all-consuming bliss that comes with the spark of a first kiss, a first love. I never experienced those short-lived middle school relationships or found my high school sweetheart. Nothing more than childhood crushes that you draw a heart next to their name in the yearbook and declare to someday marry. So, with a hopeful heart that still patiently awaits love, here I am to reveal all my hopes, dreams, and fears to my future forever.

Since I was a young girl I’ve been a sap for that fairytale type of love. I wanted to be like the princesses I’d watch in movies, and have my own prince. I yearned for a dramatic Romeo and Juliet-esque love story, or the cliche love story from some of my favorite cheesy films like Titanic or The Notebook. I’ll admit, I’m a hopeless romantic.

I’ve always loved the concept of love, in all its beauty, despite its obstacles. In fact, seeing how wrongly love can abuse a person, only drew me to want it more, hoping maybe just maybe it would work out for me. With me, jealousy or the thought of searching for another should never exist. The heart can only break so many times before there’s nothing left to fix, so I will first say, don’t make the mistake of losing me.

With a mold like mine, of course I’ve had my doubts that I’ll ever find the one. These doubts will follow me even once I get to you. I will need you to assure me, every chance you get, the extent of your feelings for me. Every now and then, reassure me of my worth.

I’m attentive and considerate, as you should be too. I won’t often openly share my feelings. No matter what I’m truly feeling inside, I’ll always don a smile. You’ll just have to know when I’m happy or sad. And although I may sound like a hypocrite, one thing you’ll never have to question, one thing that will never need reassurance, is my love for you. Yes I can be shy, but when content, I’ll vulnerably spill my whole heart on the table. I wear my heart on my sleeve, ready to either be handled with care or left damaged.

It’s the little things that satisfy me, so here’s a few things to take note of: First and foremost, if we don’t share the same taste in music, there’s no chance for us. Music will forever speak to my soul, and with me liking an array of genres, you’ll need to be prepared to endure multiple instances of my loud, off-key attempts at singing.

I like to laugh. My happiest moments are experienced with laughter. So if you can’t make me laugh, you’re one strike away from losing your chance with me. I absolutely hate getting scared. I just can’t fathom the idea that anyone would enjoy their bones nearly jumping out of their skin, so take this as a warning. If you say you want to protect me from harm’s way, you will be highly appreciated as my designated bug killer.

I can be stubborn. In an argument, chances of winning are low for you. But, if you’ve messed up, you can attempt to earn your way back into my heart with a nice evening dinner. Or maybe you’ll be forgiven if you come bearing a bouquet of roses, which are my favorite, and not just because they are a symbol of love. If you fail to do this, then you can always be replaced by chocolate, which I like to think is always there for a girl when her heart has been broken, and will never upset her. The only thing better would be a puppy, which could also easily fill an empty spot in one’s heart.

I’ll never beg for a connection. Perhaps this is why I’ve yet to be with someone. I’d like to think that I’ve got a lot of love to give, but here’s a message to all the boys I’ve never loved before: If my wishes are too much, then kindly move along. I have no problem waiting for the right one and until then, I am embracing that true love begins with loving oneself first.

~ Sincerely, Faith